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Her Say: Issue of the Week

Laura Peppas and Hayley O'Neill

Last week our own Amanda Whitley presented at the Australian Institute of Management (AIM)’s Great Debate, where the topic at hand was “Are today’s women expected to do it all?” It’s an interesting question, and one that got us thinking…exactly what is ‘it’ and who expects ‘it’ of us? To find out, we asked some of the women in the audience “Are women expected to do it all?”

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“I think as a society we are changing, and women aren’t necessarily expected to do it all – men take more of a share in duties now, there aren’t the same unrealistic expectations out there.” Sagreeta, Yarralumla


“I think there is an expectation from society that we have to do it all – all being have a great job, raise kids, clean, cook, and nurture others. There seems to be a greater expectation that we will take care of everything, but it’s hard to pinpoint why that is.” Jessie, Curtain


“I don’t think society expects us to do it all, I think it’s the pressure we put on ourselves more than anything – women can be quite hard on themselves and think they need to do it all, when really we should give ourselves a break sometimes.” Jean, Pearce


“I think as the old saying goes, ‘you can have some of it some of the time but you can’t necessarily have all of it all of the time.’  I think as your life changes, your expectations have to change as well and people have to be realistic about what we can or can’t do.” Roma, Campbell

What do you think? We’d like to hear your thoughts too! If you have an opinion, leave your comment below. 

Photography by Hayley O’Neill. Interviews by Laura Edwards. Feature image courtesy of Shutterstock. 


Laura Peppas

Laura Peppas is HerCanberra's senior journalist and communications manager and is the Editor of Unveiled, HerCanberra's wedding magazine. She is enjoying uncovering all that Canberra has to offer, meeting some intriguing locals and working with a pretty awesome bunch of women. Laura has lived in Canberra for most of her life and when she's not writing fervently she enjoys pursuing her passion for travel, reading, online shopping and chai tea. More about the Author


Hayley O'Neill

Hayley O’Neill is a Canberra based fashion stylist and fashion editor for HerCanberra. Hayley works as a freelance stylist at Westfield Belconnen and Woden and began her career styling for The Work Diaries blog. Hayley has lots of experience dressing real people with every size, age, budget and body shape. More about the Author